Why are some friends fighting
Friendship: what to do when friend becomes enemy
A violent argument, a few bad words and the intimate friendship is broken - something like this can not only happen to young people. Tips on how best to cope with the situation.
If a friendship breaks, distance helps first.
Will I have such a good friend again?
The educational advisor Maria El-Safti-Jütte from the Berliner Kinder- und Jugendtelefon also knows the problems: "In a case like this, both sides are usually quite injured and maybe worry like 'Will I have such a good girlfriend again?'"
Leave each other alone
It becomes difficult when both go to the same school or maybe even the same class. "Perhaps it is possible to conclude a kind of agreement with your former best friend, according to the motto: 'I leave you alone, you leave me alone", explains Elisabeth Raffauf.
Do not split clique
However, you should say clearly to your friends: "I would like to continue to be friends with you." It is important not to want to split the clique - such an attempt usually backfires.
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Be careful with gossip
One should say what the dispute was about and who had what view. The only exception are really close friends, explains Raffauf: "If I trust someone, I can be honest and say what I really think." But caution is advised: “Maybe the other person just wants to hear me out. Then I should keep a low profile and just say in general 'Something went very stupid'. "
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| Updated: Friday, January 6, 2012 5:11 PM
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