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Taking responsibility: this is how you learn it
Many people tend to always look elsewhere for the blame. I can't help it, I had no other choice from the start, the others made sure that it turned out that way ... What is often missing is the necessary one Personal responsibility. Of course, it is easy to see yourself only as a victim of circumstances and to shift all responsibility onto others. Just lean back and sink into dripping self-pity. But that doesn't make you happy. Only when you take responsibility for yourself can you shape your life, achieve goals and find greater satisfaction. We explain, what exactly self-responsibility meanswhy it is so important and how you can learn to take more responsibility for yourself ...
What does it mean to take responsibility for yourself?
Responsibility goes much further than just taking on responsibility for a task, an area or an entire team on the job. While this professional responsibility is an important aspect that plays on life as a whole Personal responsibility but a far greater role. Self-responsibility means being in control of your own life, being able to make conscious decisions and thus being able to exert direct influence.
The terms personal responsibility and self-determination are often used synonymously for personal responsibility. They all mean the same thing: It's in your own handsthe direction in which your life is going, whether you remain unhappy or do something about it and which alternatives you choose at the many junctures.
Personal responsibility does not only mean acting independently, but also taking responsibility afterwards - regardless of whether the result is positive or negative. Again and again there are complaints that the circumstances are to blame, the employer doesn't give you a chance, your colleagues drag you down or make a partnership unhappy. Those who act and think independently must also face this responsibility Recognize the consequences and also look for solutions yourself instead of just looking for the blame on others.
In the same way, personal responsibility applies not only to everything that you have done, but also to the things that that you didn't do. If you have decided not to study or have not submitted your application for a position for fear of being rejected, that is your responsibility as well as the steps you have chosen instead.
Personal responsibility means:
- Up for the own feelingsto feel responsible, good as well as bad.
- To recognize what you want for yourself and stand up for it.
- Know what is good for you and one Compensation for burdens to accomplish.
- The own well-being take seriously.
- To his Decisions are made and can represent them in the event of setbacks.
From a certain age, personal responsibility should actually become a matter of course - but reality shows that this assumption is simply wrong. Many people make it into one even in adulthood Circumstances are responsible for their children's mentality cozy. The simple reason: It's so incredibly easy.
who renounces personal responsibility, hardly needs to worry about anything and can make himself comfortable in his own self-pity. Society is so unfair that there are no chances at all, the employer wanted to prevent success and the friends all had it much easier from the start ...
If you take responsibility for yourself - to the full extent, for your decisions, actions, actions not carried out, feelings and developments - you have to face many problems and challenges, which are anything but easy and certainly not always pleasant. On the other hand, it also opens up many possibilities and, above all, helps to take your own life into your own hands.
That is why you should take responsibility for yourself
Personal responsibility is worthwhile for one important reason: Nobody else will do it for you. Don't wait for someone to take you by the hand and tell you what to do and what to look out for in order to live a happier life. The realization may be painful, but that's not how the world works.
Whether a problem at work or a private relationship that makes you unhappy. Personal responsibility is the key to being more satisfied with your own situation again. The solution is not presented on a silver platter, but has to be worked out by yourself. You can take part in one of the Basic principle of personal responsibility orientate: Love it, leave it or change it.
The following also applies: On free and self-determined life is only possible if you take responsibility for yourself and do not leave the most important decisions in your life to others. In addition, through responsibility, you are in control of your own happiness. Hardly anything makes you more unhappy than the feeling of being controlled by others and of no control over the things that happen around you.
Last but not least, the job takes up an ever larger part of life. For some it is exactly the right thing because the job makes you happy, but for others it is too much and there is a lack of balance outside of working hours. Here, too, it takes Self-responsibility instead of self-pityto escape the hamster wheel and restore the balance between work and private life.
Learning to take responsibility: this is how it works
Personal responsibility does not always come by itself. Often it is a difficult way and whoever has so far avoided responsibility and blamed others for everything should not be disappointed if a miracle does not happen immediately. It just takes time to learn to take responsibility and to actually put the new attitude into practice.
Difficult yes, impossible but definitely not and so should be do not shy away from personal responsibility, just because you have always done it differently up to now - what the classic behavior would be if you were not responsible for your own life.
With these tips you can learn more personal responsibility to take over:
Leave the victim role
The first important step in learning responsibility is one different setting. If you constantly see yourself as a victim of circumstance and find the blame elsewhere, just not with yourself, you will not be able to take on more responsibility for yourself. So stop looking for a scapegoat for everything.
Say goodbye to the ubiquitous victim role and begin to accept that it is in your own hands. Nobody but yourself is responsible for ensuring that you are happy, satisfied or successful in your life. After you have internalized this, it will be much easier for you to take responsibility for yourself.
Taking on personal responsibility always also means to be able to admit one's mistakesinstead of covering them up or pretending nothing happened at all. Nobody is perfect, so don't put any pressure on yourself, but deal properly with your weaknesses and failures.
Dealing openly and honestly with your mistakes not only allows you to fix them and do better in the future, but also also exerts some respect from others, as many are unable to reveal personal weaknesses.
Make your own decisions
Far too often we let ourselves speak into other people's decisions, focus on what the environment might think or just try to meet external expectations. Of course I go to university, after all, nowadays everyone does ... Yes, I'm training to be a bank clerk. No, I am not planning to give up my secure job, even if it is not exactly what I was hoping for ...
If you want to learn to take responsibility, you have to work on making your own choices, sometimes also to say a resounding noif something does not suit you and, above all, to accept the consequences.
Be open about your goals
Do you want to achieve something, do something or change something in your life? Then don't keep it to yourself, but talk to your family, friends or even your work colleagues about it. By involve others, you really take responsibility for making a change.
Instead, just sit alone and think quietly to yourself I would like to ... is unlikely to change anything. Sometimes you just have to say very clearlywhat you want so that this can also be implemented.
Customize your language
Sounds strange at first, but it is actually a very effective way to more personal responsibility. How you say and formulate somethingalready shows very clearly whether you are taking responsibility or trying to pull yourself out of the affair and hide.
In order to take on more personal responsibility, you should take care of yourself First-person perspective speak out. I have…, I wanted… or I'm going… are clear formulations with which you specifically involve yourself and acknowledge a cause. On the other hand, you should refrain from using the general “man” and the overarching “we”.
Ever impersonal your languagethe less responsible you will feel and the easier it will be for you to blame someone else.
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Nils Warkentin studied business administration at the Justus Liebig University in Giessen. In the career bible, he is devoted to topics related to studies, career entry and everyday office life.
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